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Hello, hello β€” Happy Friday!

It’s been a minute β€” we went quiet for a bit, but GoQueer is back in action, and we've got a lot queued up for you today.

But, first things first: reply to this email and fill us in on where your next trip is. It'll directly shape what we cover in the coming weeks β€” we read every reply.

Here’s what’s on tap this weekend:

  • πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ SF is named the best place to live for the Gays (but there's a catch)

  • 🚒 Join the sexiest queer cruise on the high seas β€” for free

  • πŸ—žοΈ One state’s proposal to fully legalize bathhouses again

  • 🍊 Trump goes viral for all the wrong reasons at WorldPride

Plus: all the latest in gay travel news. Let's get into it. πŸ‘‡

SF is named the best place to live for the Gays β€” but America's queer cities are under pressure

San Francisco has been named the best city in the world for LGBTQ+ life, per the newly released 2026 Sexually Liberal City Index β€” and if you've ever spent any time there, you don't need the data to believe it.

I lived there for a stretch, and there's no feeling like it. There was a tension that was just, lifted. And the parties didn't stop, even during lockdown (don't ask how I know).

But here's the gut punch: on the index's overall ranking β€” which also weighs legal protections β€” San Francisco was the only American city that cracked the top 10. Everyone else dropped off.

The report didn't dance around why, noting American cities are "fighting under the current administration.” That's the real headline. Queer culture in the U.S. isn't dying β€” it's thriving, in spite of a federal government working against it.

The cities that actually top the overall index don't have to fight their own government just to hold onto their protections.

The takeaway for queer travelers? Culture and community are thriving in cities like San Francisco and Miami β€” but legal protections matter too, both for residents and for visitors.

If you're planning trips around destinations where you can feel genuinely safe and have a brilliant time, this index is a useful lens.

Come feel the RU5H with our latest cruise giveaway

Interested in joining a sex-progressive, no-shame cruise?

RU5H is the sexiest queer cruise on the high seas, and you can win a room for two in our latest giveaway with our friends Two Bad Tourists. RU5H brings its no-shame, queer cruise and music festival to the high sea from October 2–5, 2026, sailing from Palm Beach to the Bahamas.

This sex-progressive, fetish-friendly getaway is made for gay, bi, and pan men who want music, freedom, connection, and a whole lot of after-dark action.

Expect powerhouse DJs, clothing-optional upper decks, kink-themed meetups, workshops, demos, parties, and a fantasy-fueled, electric atmosphere like nothing you’ve seen before.

The winner of our giveaway will receive a complimentary cabin for two to use as their base for this three-night cruise. Enter now and you could be getting cruisey while cruising with RU5H this October.

10K Steps Is a Myth–Try This Instead

When motivation is lacking, jumping into heavy routines is the fastest way to burn out. That’s why millions of people are turning to walking as the foundation of their fitness journey.

Walking lets you enjoy the outdoors, clear your head, and practice mindfulness. It’s simple, sustainable, and can support lasting weight loss if you know how much you need. The β€œ10,000 steps a day” rule is outdated; everyone’s lifestyle is different.

With Simple, you’ll get access to habit-based coaching that’s helped users lose over 18 million pounds. Take the quiz to discover your personalized walking target.

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Travel News for Gays on the Go

What’s worth knowing in queer travel this week β€” from major headlines to the best finds worth your clicks.

βš–οΈ Queer Politics & Rights
πŸ”₯ Trending & Viral
πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Travel Inspiration

πŸ“ˆ Culture & Visibility Wins

πŸ’‹ Sexy Stuff

That’s all for now β€” thanks for reading β€” we’ll see you next week 😘😘

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