Hello and Happy Friday! A lot to get to this week.
But, first things first: if you haven’t already, reply to this email and tell us where your next trip is. It'll directly shape what we cover in the coming weeks — we read every reply.
Here’s what’s on tap this weekend:
🏳️🌈 Two Castro gay bars tell AI to take a hike
🚢 It’s the last day to join the sexiest queer cruise on the high seas — for free
👟 10k steps/day is a myth — try this instead
🚨 71 gay men were arrested for having sex
👶 And: two of our favorite gay travel influencers just became dads!
Plus: all the latest in gay travel news. Let's get into it. 👇
The Castro just told AI to take a hike — but the fight is not over

Two of the Castro's best-known gay bars just yanked controversial AI face scanners off their doors — about two months after a local reporter found them there.
Badlands and Toad Hall pulled the plug on Patronscan Guard+, the ID-scanning facial recognition system they'd installed at the door, after a petition calling on gay bars nationwide to stop using the tech and delete their databases passed 2,000 signatures.
The machine scans your license, takes a live photo, and logs your zip code, birth date, gender, and ID expiration date.
Anti-surveillance organizers behind the tracker-tracking website Club 1984 argued the system leaves patrons' data exposed and guts the historic role of queer bars as the one place you wouldn't be "photographed, named, and listed."
You can't opt out at the door. Your only recourse is a deletion request form on the company's website, after the fact.
Patronscan's maker disputes the framing — they say Guard+ isn't facial recognition, doesn't collect biometric data, and that California photos are deleted after 21 days. Fine.
The community didn't buy it, and honestly, in 2026, why would they? Nobody cares about the vendor's intentions. They're worried about who subpoenas the database.
Evan Greer, the director of Fight for the Future, a nonprofit that advocates against AI and surveillance, put it plainly: AI surveillance tech is creepy for anyone at a club, and outright dangerous for a community currently under attack.
The fight isn't over. Club 1984 has a list of gay bars still running the tech, while some others have signed a pledge never to use it.
Nationally, the group is tracking close to 40 LGBTQ+ venues in cities like New York and LA using similar systems.
What this means for you: if you're traveling to a city and want to know whether the bar you're headed to is scanning faces at the door, Club 1984 is now a genuinely useful pre-trip check.
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10K Steps Is a Myth–Try This Instead
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Q&A Time:
Last week, we asked: have you ever spent time in the Castro?
90% of you said YES:
“Travelled there quite a bit in the late 80’s and 90’s and enjoyed being a part of the crowds and fun available. Could never afford to live there but wanted to.” (SAME!)
“Very welcoming and friendly, all community not gay not straight, just community.”
“During the height of the AIDS epidemic, I went to a conference in San Francisco and went to Blow Buddies. It was my first time in a group sex environment and I was a bit nervous to be there (some body shame issues) but it was incredibly hot and I was so glad I went.”
Travel News for Gays on the Go
What’s worth knowing in queer travel this week — from major headlines to the best finds worth your clicks.
⚖️ Queer Politics & Rights
Pete Buttigieg warns that beating Trump won’t fix what made him possible
71 Senegal men arrested for having gay sex in ‘unnatural acts’ crackdown
Teens detained after gay man beaten to death in Bulgaria
Trump rejects The Trevor Project from restored LGBTQ+ 988 crisis lifeline it helped build
🔥 Trending & Viral
Meet some of the people who made WorldPride in Amsterdam fabulous
Older gay couple together for 53 years has people crying with their love-at-first-sight story
9 unrated LGBTQ+ movies — and where to watch them
Legendary leather bar can move ahead in Phoenix after intense legal battle
🏳️🌈 Travel Inspiration
29 nude beaches every gay man should visit
The homo haven of Nice offers baths and boys on the beach
Check out these top 9 LGBTQ+ museums and Queer artist’s galleries around the world
Two same-sex married couples planned a trip to rural Maine — here’s what happened
📈 Culture & Visibility Wins
After years of waiting, two of our favorite gay travel influencers are finally dads!
The surprising LGBTQ+ representation in Spider-Man: Brand New Day has queer fans cheering
Jeopardy! host Ken Jennings calls out anti-trans ‘bigots’ and ‘cowards'
He was a gay escort — now he’s helping 100K+ people heal
💋 Sexy Stuff
Frankie Grande wears nothing but a towel — barely — in sexy new gym selfie
13 steamy pics of sexy gay Olympian Filip Taschler
The hunks of Off Campus compare their spicy sex scenes to Heated Rivalry
And: these gay fishermen are quite the catch
That’s all for this week — thanks for reading — we’ll see you next week 😘😘
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